BANNED FROM A CLAN FOR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP

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IS IT RIGHT TO BE BANNED FOR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS BWETWEEN CLAN MEMBERS
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spitfire+tempest
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PostPosted: Jun 8, 2008 5:35 am    Post subject: BANNED FROM A CLAN FOR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP Reply with quote

I USED TO BELONG TO A CLAN CALLED OHG|. BASICALLY THEY BANNED ME FOR HAVING A RELATIONSHIP WITH A FEMALE CLAN MEMBER. NOW THEY ARE MAKING FALSE ACCUSATIONS THAT I WAS HARASSING HER AND STILL CONTINUED TO BAN ME.

FEMALE STEAM NAME:OHG|1LT.T|EMP|EST OR T|TEMPEST

CLAN LEADER:OHG|CIC.SIRDAD

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PostPosted: Jun 8, 2008 10:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It doesnt matter if its "right". Its their rules, clans have rules.


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PostPosted: Jun 8, 2008 1:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i would say it sounds like an immature clan anyway why waste your time with one that would ban you over non-css related issues. In the end though he is right it is there rules and they can do whatever they want. I play css with my gf all the time we both been running this clan since we met so i dont see any problems with something like that.

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PostPosted: Jun 8, 2008 3:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well of course... you RUN the clan. So other people follow YOUR rules.

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PostPosted: Jun 8, 2008 6:15 pm    Post subject: IT WASNT PART OF THE RULES Reply with quote

I WAS BANNED FOR NO REASON. I LOOKED AT THE MOTD AND IT DIDNT SAY THAT PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS WAS AGAINST THE RULES. ill get the motd:

HACKING
SCRIPTING
FAILING TO ABIDE BY AN OHG| MEMBERS REQUEST
DISRESPECT OF OHG MEMBERS
TAUNTING OR DISRESPECT OF ANY PLAYER
INAPROPIATE SPRAYS
GRENADE SPAMMING
COMPLAINING TOO LOUDLY ABOUT TEAM BALANCE
WEARING THE OHG| TAG IF NOT A MEMBER
MIC SPAMMING
SWITCHING TEAMS AFTER AN ADMIN MOVES YOU

see no anti-personal relationships

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PostPosted: Jun 8, 2008 8:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Its not our problem. Its between you and your clan, there is no way for us to fix anything.


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spitfire+tempest
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PostPosted: Jun 8, 2008 10:17 pm    Post subject: just letting you know Reply with quote

im just letting you know to stay away from that group

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PostPosted: Jun 11, 2008 6:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

was it just you banned or her as well?

and is this your clan or just a server you use?


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PostPosted: Jun 12, 2008 12:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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FAILING TO ABIDE BY AN OHG| MEMBERS REQUEST


If they requested no inter clan relationships it might have been against the rule above. Otherwise, I don't think you broke any rules. Also, It could have been jealousy by a leader or another higher up. If anything just talk to them about it without arguing or fighting.


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PostPosted: Jun 12, 2008 12:36 am    Post subject: banned from ohg clan Reply with quote

it wasnt partt of the rules at all!!!!!! Me and her were starting to hit it off. one day i needed to talk to her about something and the next day she sent me this:

Ok look, kid. Your life is not that horrible. You need to understand that life is unfair. Also you need to understand that you can not tell me that you love me. I dont mean to be harsh but you dont listen and you cant take a hint. I am married and yes I lied Im not married to Take. I just said that so you would hopefully back off. I am only a clan member. I have my own problems in life that I need to deal with. I can't listen to yours. Once again life is UNFAIR! the sooner you realize this the better. Your parents are going to whats best for you and you just need to suck it up and be a man. You kinda sound like a whiney little child. I have real problems to deal with and dont have the time or patience to deal w/ this non sense. Please have respect for me and my privacy. I have removed you from my steam friends list and Im marking your emails as spam. Please take the hint now. I will never be with you. For many reasons. You need to just chill out and stop being so whiney. Get a thicker skin damn it!! Life sucks, deal with it! Worry about girls later. Right now you need to work on your mental and emotional problems. Until those are fixed no girl will want to be with you. And for the record I will NEVER be with you. I tried to be nice to you but your just too manipulative and whiney. Like I said I have my own problems to deal with. Hope your problems get fixed. Have a nice life.
P.S. Stop trying to make people feel sorry for you.

then she minipulated all of the members to make like i was doing something wrong when i wasnt. none of the other clan members let em tell my side of the story. i love her deeply and i need people to talk her out of this. (steamcommunity.com/id/hotgamerchic)

Edit by Riku:Please use the edit button instead of double posting.

and she wasnt banned. Besides she is already having sexual relations with another clan member

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PostPosted: Jun 12, 2008 12:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Reading her letter kind of made me understand something. You could have been mistaking her kindness for something more then it was. Also, If she asked you to stop contacting her, regardless if she likes you or not, then you should have stopped. That's considered harassment.


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spitfire+tempest
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PostPosted: Jun 12, 2008 12:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

she onlt told me to stop contacting her the day she wrote the letter

Edit by Riku: Please stop double posting. Use the edit button.

then why didnt they ban the other guy

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PostPosted: Jun 12, 2008 1:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Either way she asked you to stop. If you continued to try and speak to her from there then I can understand why you were banned. The other guys possibly wasn't banned because he isn't harassing anyone.


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PostPosted: Jun 12, 2008 1:03 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

she admitted that she lied to the clan members about me harasing her in order to get me to back off shre told m thatv herself yet she stll respondes to my emails she must i mean must like me any girl would be yo know what if a guy told thenm that they love them . if i girl told me that, i would jump at the chance

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Riku wrote:
Either way she asked you to stop. If you continued to try and speak to her from there then I can understand why you were banned. The other guys possibly wasn't banned because he isn't harassing anyone.



they still are having it out for each other. the other guy is h igher ranking than me

like i said before, she told me that she did it in order for me to back off

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PostPosted: Jun 12, 2008 1:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Look, I've asked you multiple times to stop double posting. I understand you feel upset because from your point of view you did nothing wrong but there is nothing that the CSS staff, members or myself can do to reverse this effect. Like I wrote before, try to calmly talk to the clan leader or higher ups about the situation. This thread is going no where.

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